The overcorrection

What exactly is over correction... Well in this context Over correction is correcting your mistakes more than necessary.. Over correction happens in our lives too. Often we do not realise it. I don't know if it always works or not.
My experience says that it sucks. This reminds me of a friend of mine a simple next door kind of girl... This girl liked a guy... The guy was just too sweet... Average looking, kind hearted, had always been there for her whenever she needed him, respected and loved his parents in this age... The girl liked him for more than three years but she never told him... And one day she realised that her best friend liked him too. So she backed off cause friendship mattered more to her than love... Letting  him go wasn't very easy for her though. But somehow she managed. She was stronger than what people thought. She survived it too. And when she thought she was done with love and there was no more love in her life...A couple of years passed and then another guy entered her life as a friend after a long time.  They were childhood friends and got in touch with her after almost five years.. The girl wasn't very fond of the second guy though.... This guy was the exact opposite of the first guy... He had drinking problems, was a screw up, didn't have a purpose in life, wasn't very kind, had anger management issues and most of all wasn't very kind at heart ... Like some people don't change no matter what. ... He was one of these few....he was the same rude idiot like five years ago.... But this girl always tried looking for something good in him.. After all no one is completely bad or good... Yes even he pretended to have a good side which he didn't... Suddenly one thing led to other and he was in love with this girl or this is what he told her and asked her out. The girl hesitated in the beginning but thought things might pan out well this time.. Despite of numerous warnings by her friends and knowing him she ended up with him. She ended up over correcting by dating the exact opposite guy.. But this guy turned out to be a jerk as expected... In spite of umpteen chances and doing everything to fix things, he screwed everything up as expected, left her alone, broke her heart and left her devastated for no fault of hers.... And now this friend of mine has gone into her shell and doesn't trust any guy anymore and doesn't believe in love anymore.. So the moral of the story is think twice before over correcting.... You don't know what it might cost you...

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