"The one"

I'm very sure that everyone would've been in a relationship atleast once at this point in life if not they would've fallen in love atleast...
While some people are lucky to find their love quickly...  Some have to struggle and go through quite a lot of things... But hey like Shah Rukh says "agar end tak kuch acha naa ho.. To picture abhi baaki hai mere dost..."
Okay already too much of bakwas let me come to the point.. This is how the story normally goes with 90% people. You meet someone, you feel he's the one,  he's just perfect, give more than 100% in a relationship, the guy turns out to be a retard or can't commit.. He leaves you dangling in between. You go back being single again. Stop trusting everyone that comes around. Build walls around yourself.  Don't let anyone to enter in again. Think that you'll never fall in love again, that was it... Trust me first relationship fails 99% of the times...
Yes it's difficult,  difficult like crazy..  You can't fix a screwed up relationship, agreed...It's like a glass, once broken can't be fixed.. But hey you can buy a new glass though..  The faster you do it, the happier you'll be. Don't try to pick up the pieces and fixing the broken glass you'd hurt your hand... Instead try moving on.
Don't close yourself up just because you gave everything to one person
and it didn't work out with him doesn't mean you'll never find your "number one.." You'll eventually meet someone who'd go through all the efforts to break the walls that you've built and melt your heart again...
Maybe the next second or maybe a couple of years down or the line or maybe after ten years, you WILL find your guy..  The one who would take care of you,  it wouldn't matter to him if you're too healthy or too skinny, to whom it wouldn't matter how you look, who'll love you for just the way you're... Who would do all the silly things just to make you smile, who would call you just to hear your voice even though there is nothing to talk about.. He would respect you for what you are... The one who will never check your call logs or chats because he's very sure that you're his and will always be.. Who isn't insecure about you leaving...that is why you'll never feel the urge to lie to him... A best relation is the one built on trust.  If you have to lie to your better half about things.. I'm sorry but it's never ever going to work out in the long run.. And the way he holds you in his arms... You wouldn't have felt more secure... The feeling is going to be amazing... He will know what he has when he has you.. Will love you with all his heart...This guy wouldn't be perfect but yes he would be perfect for you...
I'm not exaggerating..  I've actually seen people meet their prince charming after going through a series of heart breaks..  And at that point you will realise all the sadness, all the heartbreak would seem right..  Because you deserved better.. You deserved "the one".. "The One" who's perfect for you. So don't hold yourself back, fall in love get your heart broken, screw things up, cause when you look back all these things are going to bring a big smile on your face...
Ps. It is not necessary that you'll fall in love and then get married...  As people say marriages are made in heaven... You might even get your Mr. Perfect in your arranged marriage too..you never know...

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