The thing about love

"l dont want to tell you nothing you don't want to hear
All I want is for you to say
Why don't you just take me where I've never been before
I know you want to hold me catch my breath...
I love you till the end"

You cannot just hate this song. Why I chose to write about love.. Ummm it's cause it's 2.00 a. m. and I've just finished watching love stories back to back.. Anyways i just curse love so might as well praise it once for a change.. :p Okay this one is dedicated to everyone who's ever been in love and heartbroken..
I know our life isn't going to be all lovey dovey and you're not going to meet your love of your life just like that.. Everyone wants a Gerry in their life (if you haven't watched P. S. I love you.. please do).

I wish love was as easy as portrayed in movies.. Oh boy it is not.. Yes we do make mistakes in our life. We fall in love.. Sometimes it's real sometimes we just "think" that it is love. It works for some and doesn't for some, the ones that it doesn't work for feel cheated, betrayed, heart broken, sad, unlucky and always have the "why me?" feeling... Sometimes the most perfect relationships go for a toss. We fight.. First we fight to hold on and then we fight to let go.. Fighting to let go is more difficult cause we know there is no hope, we are going to get hurt more further if we try to hold on; but we do not want to believe that.. We want to hold that teeny tiny hope in our hearts.. The hope which says no he/ she is going to come back and its going to be all rosy again... Acceptance becomes very difficult. You will give anything, do anything to hold back to that person, ask them to come back, you would have had a hell lot of conversations with that person in your head which you would never actually have in reality... So to all those who have been through that or are going through that I just want you all to know.. Its okay to feel that way.. You know "Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."

I bet a lot of you would have made up your mind to not love at all, to never feel, to stay away from this crap. All I want to tell you people is just hold on guys. Someday you will meet your true love. I know its difficult to believe in true love after having a heart break. Its going to be difficult.. Seing someone you love go away is not easy. But its okay at times to think about yourself.. Its okay to be hurt. Its okay to screw up. Every time you screw up, you learn something.. Every failed relationship you have ever been in teaches you what NOT to do in a relationship and what kind of person NOT to date. There is a line in The Fault in our Stars "That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt." So feel, cry hard, cry yourself to sleep but do not cry for the same person again.

So its time to let go. Let go the one who doesn't value you, the one who takes you for granted, the one who wants to be with you for time-pass, the one who is afraid to commit, the one who isn't sure what they want in their life, the one who breaks up with you all the time and comes back to you when alone.. Its only going to hurt you further.. Instead of thinking why me.. Kick this "one" out of your life so that you can make place for the "Real One". Cause you deserve happiness, you deserve someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

As it is rightly said "Good things come to those who wait." So just wait. That person is out there somewhere waiting for you as well... Looking at whom you'd feel butterflies in your stomach. Your heart will skip a beat just looking at them smile. You would want to tell them every little detail of your day to them. Just sitting with them without even speaking a word would make sense. You could see it in their eyes, the love for you. Looking at them you will have a smile on your face, a smile so big that it will reach your eyes. This person will understand you in and out.. Would take all the little efforts to make you smile no matter how silly it is.. The day will come when you will tell them about all the hurt, all the pain, all the suffering that you felt and why you were afraid to fall in love. This person would hug you so so tight that all the broken pieces would stick together. You wouldn't mind barring your soul and showing them the real you. You would be vulnerable, but you would realise, you can't feel love without being vulnerable. They would make you realise why it never worked out with anybody else cause you were meant to meet this amazing person. 

Be ready to get hurt, let your guard down. Let down the walls and you will find love. You cannot find love without feeling vulnerable. . The one is coming very soon to heal all your wounds and make you realise how it feels to be in love again...But for this to happen you will have to let go of the past, let go of the person you were in love and make way for the special one.

Fall in love,

Its one of the beautiful feelings ever..

You will fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time. So don't stop looking. :)

PS: I am not writing this cause I have found my guy. I am still looking out for my Gerry. But yes, when I find him I am going to fall in love and this time it is going to be real and is going to last. I am not guessing this. I know :)