A page from my life

'Mera pehla pyaar adhura reh gaya iffat bi mera pehla pyaar adhura reh gaya', this dialogue has been stuck in my head since I watched Kuch Kuch Hota Hai for the first time when I was 9. Every time i have watched this scene I have cried along-with Anjali. I'm sure you did too. No doubt it is one of my all time favourite movies, but now that I think of it; it doesn't make sense. I have always seen people dejected and sobbing about their first love. So today lets talk about second love cause 'first love' is "OVERHYPED" First love is magical and enchanting. There is a lot of excitement about everything that surrounds your first relationship. You are young, wild, carefree and oh yes, you also have time in your hand. You're thrilled about every little thing; be it the first movie.. the first time you held hands... the first kiss.. the first outing... You have a list of all the firsts that happened.. Of course there are also the first fight...

1. They are good for careers 2. They're good for your health 3. They're good for your social lives 4. They're good for your friendships 5. They give you your own space 6. You learn to deal with shit 7. You start enjoying your own company 8. Your happiness starts with you. You get that realisation with a broken heart 9. You can take care of your family 10. You can do things you want like read, write, watch a movie or do any bloody thing that you want without feeling guilty 11. You don't have to constantly worry about the other person 12. Your self worth soars insanely when you get out of it 13. You realise the importance of family. You know they would be the only ones who wouldn't leave you

When someone matters to you - you end up giving multiple second chances to them. Despite having two pathetic break ups i have still not been able to stop giving multiple second chances to the guy i love. It hurts when all the guys you fall in love with disappoint you in ways that you can't imagine. Every fucking time, this happens There are guys who take you for granted, there are guys who lie to you on your face and there are guys who treat you like shit. What you need to understand is that, you are not supposed to let someone control your happiness no matter how much you love them. When you love someone, you are your own self, you barr your soul in front of them without even an afterthought that they might fuck you over. And you deserve this, if you let someone fuck you over again and again and again. You deserve this... You deserve this for all the sacrifices that you did. You deserve this for putting their happiness in front of yours. You deserve this for imagining a future...

1. Don't ever dedicate a song to your boyfriend/girlfriend or crush... Fuckers ruin that song for u forever😑 2. Don't ever introduce them to your family or close cousins ... You can't tell your mom that you just lost touch with that person.. Mom's will pester you into calling them home 3. Rule 3: don't ever take those f*****s to your favourite spots... Sorry but post breakup those aren't going to be your favourite anymore 4. Rule 4: Don't spend your special days like birthdays, new year and Christmas eves with them... Unless you want to spend all your precious holidays sulking about a dimwit who didn't deserve you Sorry lil one, even Santa can't make u happy if u do that 5. Rule 5: Never ignore your best friends or the close knit group of idiots you have when you start dating.. Because these precious idiots are gonna come and pick u up when the a*****e drops you down.. they're gonna clean your puke.. make you laugh and make yo...

I'm writing this as my friend asked me write something positive. There's already a lot of negativity around. You never know who might connect with you or feel better reading it.. Chinu - Baby here I come with something positive :) Thank you for the motivation :* Start saving You're 25 now but you're not going to stay 25 forever. Don't spend more than what you earn. That additional pair of heels, make up, partying all weekends is not going to help in the long run. So save for the rainy day Build your career You can't spend your whole life dependent on someone. Focus on your career. Make it big, grow more. Having a steady career is very very important. It makes you financially stable. Learn to say no Start saying no to things and people where you think it's necessary.. You're not born on this earth to please everyone or rather you can't please everyone Take good care of your body This is what most of the people ignore at this age. ...

Walk away from a situation that screws up your mood Walk away from negativity Walk away from things that make you sad. Walk away from the job that makes you frustrated.. But most importantly walk away from people... From friends who come to you only when they want something... Those kind of people who treat you like an option... The people who take you for granted... From people who make you feel unwanted.... From people who make you believe in dreams and piss over it... Who break your heart and when you mend your heart and finally fix it... they break it again.. Walk away from people who pretend they care but don't really.. Walk away from people whose actions don't match with their words.. Walking away hurts.. you'll be walking towards something beautiful when you're walking away from these things.. Just let it go... The sooner it dawns upon you the sooner you'll be out of it.. Don't take shit from anyone... Also you don't owe shit ot people.....