A page from my life

"l dont want to tell you nothing you don't want to hear All I want is for you to say Why don't you just take me where I've never been before I know you want to hold me catch my breath... I love you till the end" You cannot just hate this song. Why I chose to write about love.. Ummm it's cause it's 2.00 a. m. and I've just finished watching love stories back to back.. Anyways i just curse love so might as well praise it once for a change.. :p Okay this one is dedicated to everyone who's ever been in love and heartbroken.. I know our life isn't going to be all lovey dovey and you're not going to meet your love of your life just like that.. Everyone wants a Gerry in their life (if you haven't watched P. S. I love you.. please do). I wish love was as easy as portrayed in movies.. Oh boy it is not.. Yes we do make mistakes in our life. We fall in love.. Sometimes it's real sometimes we just "think" that it is love...

Weddings!!!  The first thing that comes to everybody's mind when they think of this word is "Amazing food, Clinking bangles, Beautifully decorated hotels and halls, Beautiful Bride,Joy and Pomp, Romance, Culture Blah!!!" But what is the first thing that comes to the mind of the bride's father when he realises that his daughter is getting married? What does the bride's family go through when they think about the wedding? Will she be able to adjust to the new surroundings? Whether her in laws will take care of her the way they did? Is she going to feel alone? Will she have someone to talk to? Is the guy going to keep her happy? the list goes on...To add to that the family has to fulfill the expectations of the grooms parents..Some people ask for a lavish wedding while some ask for dowry... Not only is the bride's family fighting emotionally, the marriage would cost her dad his entire life savings, it would burn a big hole in his pocket.. How can people be so hea...

Long long ago you were a person who who used to always fix things up, patched friendships,bothered to stay in touch, did everything for everyone, even went out of the way to please people and did things for them when they didn't even deserve... But how long are you going to be able to do this, there comes a point when you have to just let go. And BAM!!!  you just have stopped caring all of a sudden... You have people leaving you, people judging you and telling you that you've changed, that you don't bother anymore. I don't care what people think of me. I don't care what others expect of me. I don't care that people are going away..  I don't care that I am not bothered anymore. I don't care that I have changed.. I DON'T CARE THAT I DON'T CARE... And so shouldn't you..  "You cannot take care of everyone" someone had told me this a long time ago which I never took seriously but yes it does make sense now... Maybe a part of you would...

Life is very very strange. Everytime we figure out something, something new turns up. It really makes me wonder about what Christopher Gardener said in The pursuit of happYness, "That maybe  happiness is something that we can only pursue  and maybe we  can  actually never have it. No matter what." Life really really sucks at times. Just when you think that you have it all figured out, it all goes haywire. When you truly and desparately try to get something, you never ever get that. But the thing comes to you and become yours when you just don't want it anymore or you accept the fact that you don't want it anymore... And again when you feel okay about having something, it suddenly is no more yours. All you can do is sit and wonder,  what the Fuck is wrong...  Why does it have to be so complicated... Why can't we have a simple uncomplicated life, with a happy ending. I so wish that google had solutions for all these problems as well. Maybe it's meant to ...

Well twenties is the age when people expect you to turn mature all of a sudden..  At this point in life you go through a change in everything..  You get out of college, start your job or internship..  Loose touch with your buddies with whom you used to spend hours together at one point of time .. You get a different perspective about life.. You start seeing things differently..  New friends new relationships, life becomes a roller coaster ride in your early twenties with a couple of highs and lows..  So here I'm just jotting down the life lessons that I learnt in my early twenties... 1. You realise who your real friends are.. You filter out all your friends..  You end up having only a few close friends and you realise that what matters is not how many pals you have but how they actually are.. And these friends who stick with you are going to be with you forever. 2. You stop giving a shit about people leaving cause you realise people who want to stay a...

I'm very sure that everyone would've been in a relationship atleast once at this point in life if not they would've fallen in love atleast... While some people are lucky to find their love quickly...  Some have to struggle and go through quite a lot of things... But hey like Shah Rukh says "agar end tak kuch acha naa ho.. To picture abhi baaki hai mere dost..." Okay already too much of bakwas let me come to the point.. This is how the story normally goes with 90% people. You meet someone, you feel he's the one,  he's just perfect, give more than 100% in a relationship, the guy turns out to be a retard or can't commit.. He leaves you dangling in between. You go back being single again. Stop trusting everyone that comes around. Build walls around yourself.  Don't let anyone to enter in again. Think that you'll never fall in love again, that was it... Trust me first relationship fails 99% of the times... Yes it's difficult,  difficult ...

A couple of days before I was wondering what do people exactly know about me cause I'm a typical Scorpion and scorpions are secretive after all... So don't blame me blame my stars :p...  So I decided to do a blog on 5 things people know about me and 5 things they don't... Things people know about me... 1. I can go on blabbering 24x7 without a single pause... I love talking...  I think everyone who knows me would agree with this..  Sometimes I can even talk without any topic... At times I talk so much that my friends request me to keep my mouth shut... And since I'm friendly and easy to talk to I make friends easily :-) 2. I was more like a tomboy. I mean I still am but yes ab I do try and get dressed up and be girly. I don't understand pink, pout and cheesy/girly talks(but I love some of the best romantic movies..  Khnh and PS I love you are my all time favourites).  And I swear a lot which I'm trying to curb... 3. I'm a big time foodie. It's my firs...